September 24, 2014 - Could you be in an open relationship?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Open relationship:  An interpersonal relationship in which the parties are together but agree to a form of non-monogamous commitment.  Meaning that the two parties agree to have intimate sexual relationships with others…..  That is just one man’s definition of an open relationship.  No matter how you/they/anyone explains it; it means a couple that is committed to each other but agrees to be able to have sex with someone other than their mate.  Now in every situation it might be a little different, some rules are in place.  But all in all that's what it means. 

       

       So now I ask you.  Could you be in an open relationship?  Do you think an open relationship could be a good or bad thing?

       As for me……This may shock some that THINK they know me.  The ones that REALLY know me won’t be surprised….  As for me I could not do an open relationship.  If I decide to be in a relationship with someone I want that someone and that someone only.  I’m a pretty loyal person.  When my feelings are in it I’m all in.  In for a penny, in for a pound!    I do think it could be a good thing for those that can do it.  Too each his/her own.  Those thinking about doing it, understand that It’s not all peaches and cream!  It takes a special kind of person to be able to handle that relationship.  Don’t just look at it as a way to be able fuck a bunch of different people.  It’s much MUCH more than that. 

September 17, 2014 - Work romances, can they work?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

        So... you're at work and there is this unbelievable guy/girl.  She’s pretty, nice body, attitude to match and they are single.  On top of that she/he is interested in you. What do you do?  Work romances can they work?  Would you?  Have you?

       What I am about to say is going to be a big contradiction but.....  I really don't know if I would seek out a work romance; but saying that the best relationship I ever had started at work.  I guess if it just happened I don't think I would stop it but at the same time I don't know if I'd be open to it to allow it to happen.  SMDH......

      Workplace relationships....yes or no?

September 10, 2014 - Are you attracted to a big woman/man?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Before we get started I want to thank everyone that has contributed at any time to this blog.  Thank you!!  Please continue and tell your friends to stop by.  And now.....

       So tell me, does size matter?  No, no not that size.  We've already talked about that.  I'm talking about size as in weight.  Are you attracted to a big woman/man?  What is a big woman/man in your eyes?  Today we have so many different ways to refer to a "big" woman or man.  The most popular term used now is THICK.  Let me say this.  There is a different in thick and fat.  The difference is in the eye of the beholder but there is a difference.  What I might consider thick the next man might say is fat and visa verse.  So the difference is a matter of opinion.  When I am asked if I like big/thick women my answer is, "I like women, period!"  I've had my share of experiences with thick, big, skinny...all kinds of women and they have been good, bad and indifferent.

       So tell me, does size matter?  Do you have a preference?

September 3, 2014 - What is your motivation?

        Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Before we get started I want to thank everyone that has contributed at any time to this blog.  Thank you!!  Please continue and tell someone else to stop by.  And now.....

        In this world we are all looking for something (I think).  Whatever that something is we are all motivated by something.  Money, material gains or love; which floats your boat....what is your motivation?