October 29, 2014 - Attraction to your friend

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       
       You are married or in your committed relationship.  Things with you and your significant other are going ok; there are no serious issues but things could be better.  While going about your days you find yourself noticing a friend.  You two have casual conversation and to your surprise you find yourself interested and falling for this friend.  As a little time passes your significant other starts to notice a change in you and asks you what’s up.  Do you tell them about your attraction to your friend or do you just brush it off as something else? 

October 22, 2014 - How do you know when you are in love?

        Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       This weeks question is very easy......NOT!  How do you know when you are in love?

       As easy as that sounds it's a rather hard question.  Love to me can mean several things.  It's that feeling you get when you want to spend every moment with someone.  Or is it about the sex?  Or that feeling you get when you see them and your stomach gets those butterflies.   Or is it???

       So tell me, how do you know when you are in love?

October 15, 2014 - Do you think a cheater can change?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

        Today I had a conversation with some co-workers and the subject of “If cheaters can change” came up.  The conversation was between a few men and woman and as you would expect the views on the subject differed.

       In my opinion I believe a cheater can change.  I believe if he/she wants to that change can be made.  If the person he/she cheated on will give them the chance to make things right is a different story. Something else that was brought up is what if the cheater cheats over and over again should they be given another and another and another chance.  Well?…then that person wants to be a cheater, nothing anyone can do about that.

       So I’ll ask you… Do you think a cheater can change?  If your mate cheated on you what would you do?  And to make it real interesting; if you cheated on your significant other would you come clean and tell them?

October 8, 2014 - Weight gain

        Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..
        

       You and your mate meet and the relationship grows; you have many things in common.  One of the things is an enjoyment for working-out; you both take pretty good care of yourself.  At some point your mate seems less interested in working-out and healthy living and their weight starts to grow.   After about two years you are no longer physically attracted to your mate do to their weight gain….what would you do? 

       Would you/could you continue in your relationship if your mate gained a lot of weight and you were no longer physically attracted to them? 

October 1, 2014 - Cougar/Sugar Daddy

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Cougar is a slang term that refers to a woman who seeks sexual relations with considerably younger men.  The New York Times states that the women are over the age of 40 and aggressively pursue sexual relations with men in their twenties or thirties.  However, the term can also refer to any female who has a male partner much younger than herself, regardless of age or age difference

       Sugar daddy is a slang term for a man who offers to support a typically younger woman or man after establishing a relationship that is usually sexual.

       Throughout history there have been Sugar Daddies; older men with younger women.  Now I'm not saying that in every case the older man was "funding" the relationship, I just wanted to use the title for the blog lol.  I'm simply referring to older men with younger women.  In the past few year a new term has come up.  Cougar... an older woman with a younger man....NICE!

       So I ask, ladies could you be a Cougar and if so what is the widest age gap you could/would do?  And for the fellows out there, could you be a Sugar Daddy (funding or not?)  If so, what is your age limits?


       Cougar or Sugar Daddy....could you, would you?