August 27, 2014 - No blog

No blog tonight...tune in next week when I'll be back and better than ever!!!

August 20, 2014 - One night with any celebrity

        Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Let's have some fun folks.  I have two lighthearted questions for you this evening.

1. If you could spend one night with any celebrity who would it be and what would you do?

2. Pick one person that you know personally (you can name them or not.)  If you could spend one special weekend with them where would you go and what would you do? (be as explicit as you like we are all adults here.)

              So tell me, what you got?

August 13, 2014 - Let’s reminiscence

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Let’s reminiscence.... I was born and raised in N.E. D.C.  Went to Burrville Elementary, Evans Jr. High and H.D. Woodson….yada yada yada.

       Tell me about where you grew up, the songs you remember, the TV shows.  Give me some memories…..Go!!!!!

August 6, 2014 - Does everyone have a price?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       
       Does everyone have a price?  Can everyone be bought? Do you have a price?

       I say yes, yes and yes.  I believe so.  NOW before everyone lose their mind let me say I do believe that everyone has their price but I also believe that there are moral things that will not allow some people to do some things.  In general I don't believe people will do anything they find morally wrong (if they are married, harm a child, break the law, etc).  I also understand that not everyone has the same moral so what I/you won't do the next person might.  I also believe that a PRICE is not always money.

       Let me give you a few scenarios (please stick with the facts that I give).....
     
       (1)
       You go an an interview for your dream job.  The money is right, the job is right, it's what you have wanted since FOREVER!  After the interview you don't feel good about the way it went, it was an off day for you.  About a week later Mr./Ms. interviewer calls to tell you that it has come down to you and another person for the job.  After a short conversation the they let you know that if you sleep with them the job is yours.  They insure you that there will be no other repercussions (there won't be), no one else will ever found out (they won't) and this will not every happen again (it won't).  Do you sleep with them for your dream job?

       (2)
       You go out on a date with a guy/girl that you met.  It is a good date, you enjoy yourself.  You find the person to be attractive but there is something that just does not click.  You decided that you are not interested in a romantic relationship with them.  You tell them that you can be friends and hope they are willing because you can see yourself having a good time hanging out with them.  About a week later they call and ask you out, you say yes.  At dinner they tell you that they are very physically attracted to you and don't think that they are able to be just friends.  They tell you that this will be the last time you two will see each other BUT before they leave they ask if you would be willing to sleep with them just once.  They don't mean to offend you but the attraction is just so strong.  To try and persuade you they offer you $2000.  You say no and they tell you to name your price.  Is there a price?  What is it?

So what say you.....
          

July 30, 2014 - youngandlookin'forhelp

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Today I'm changing it up a little.  The blog question this week comes from a young lady that wants a little advice...here's her question.....

       Why is it that when a woman invites a man over (before booty call hours) to just kick it he either tries his hand or just assume that she wants to have sex. There are women out there that just just wanna chill and just have the company of a man so what makes him just assume; and how do women feel about a man that comes over expecting more than just her company..does she continue to deal with him after discussing that she doesn't want to have sex or does she give him the boot and move on to the next?

       Well youngandlookin'forhelp (that's what we'll call her) here's my take on it.  Most of the time the guy will go by what he's presented with.  If you past actions were sex when he came to visit that's what he's going to be looking for.  Also if most of your conversations are about sex guess what...that's what he's going to be looking for.  When talking to the guy if you make it clear that you are interested in his company and nothing more he should respect that.  If he can't then he's not someone you need to waste your time with.

But that's just my take on it....

July 23, 2014 - Money...Love...Sex....Greed…Respect….Material Things

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        Money...Love...Sex....Greed…Respect….Material Things.  What motivates you? 

       Every morning my alarm clock goes off at 4:30 am.  Do I like that…NO!  But bills have to be paid.  I sooooo wish I didn’t have to get up and go to work everyday but I’ve gotta do what I’ve gotta do.  My motivation to do that is Bills.

       I am in no way shape or form money hungry.  I make it because I need it.  Money does not move me but money is needed so I do what I have to do to earn my paycheck.  Now when it comes to writing I do it for the love of it!  (While I'm talking about writing if you have not done it yet pop over to Amazon.com and download your copy of Life's Poems and The Sex Pages and The Sex Pages II: Sexual Eruption)  When it comes right down to it my life is ruled by love (not good sometimes believe me)  I would do anything for the love of my family and those that mean a lot to me.

      

       So tell me, what motivates you?

R.I.P Robert Newhouse......Cowboys for life!!!

July 16, 2014 - How do you get to know someone?

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       We are running a little late tonight, having technical difficulties... But let's go.

       In this day and age of online dating how do you get to know someone?  Tell me your idea of a good first date.

July 9, 2014 - Soundtrack for love

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Many people like to listen to music while making love so....lets make a soundtrack.

       When we make love our bodies go through four different phases. Those four phases are Excitement, plateau, orgasmic and resolution.  Don't believe, Google it!

The (1) excitement phase is getting ready to get it in... foreplay.
The (2) plateau phase is when you are getting it in... actual intercourse.
The (3) orgasmic phase is (duh)..... orgasm
The (4) resolution phase is when you are relaxed after the orgasm.....afterglow for some cuddle time.

       Now here comes the fun part.  Give me a soundtrack for your love making;  a song per phase.  Are you a romantic or are you a thug lover?  I know this list will change with your mood but......show me what you got.

Here is one for me off the top of my head.... Grown and sexy mood: 1. A House Is Not A Home (Luther), 2. We're Living In Our Own Time (EWF) 3. International Lover (Prince), 4. So High (John Legend) 

July 2, 2014 - Going out with friends of the opposite sex

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Before we get started I just want to say we lost another great one recently.  Mr. Bobby Womack, rest in peace.

You're pushing my love
A little bit too far
I don't think you know
I don't think you know
How blessed you are

And your friend, Annie Mae
Tell you all she see
Have you ever thought
She was trying to get
Close to me, yeah

Think it over
Think it over, girl
Think it over

Look
That's the way I feel about cha
That's the way I feel about cha

That's the Way I feel About Cha - Bobby Womack

       Now lets continue....

       Its been a long week and you are beat down. Friday is finally here and all you want to do it sit back, relax with a drink and watch TV until you pass out. Your partner wants to go out; nothing fancy maybe just dinner and a few drinks but you just don't feel up to it. Your partner asked if it would be alright for him/her to go out with a friend and you have no problems with this since you won't have to be the one going. An hour later there's a knock at the door, your partner's friend is there to pick them up. You answer the door and standing there is the best looking man/woman (opposite sex of your mate) you have ever seen in your life!!! What do you say?  What do you do?  Do you do anything?

June 25, 2014 - Could you, would you date someone that makes less money than you?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       (In my O' Jays voice) Money, money, money, money, money!!  The almighty dollar!!  Does money change you?  Is money the root of all evil?  I tend to believe that the LACK of money is the root of all evil because; to get it some people will do whatever it takes...but that's just me.

       How important is money to you?  I understand we all need it to live but for some that "greenback, scrilla, cheese, cash, doe, mullah, paper, dead presidents, bread...etc" is like a God.  After saying that here's the question of the night.....

       After realizing how important money is could you date someone that makes less money than you? SIGNIFICANTLY less than you; I'm talking about somewhere in the range of $20,000 less than you.  When you meet them they have there own  place, car and are doing ok for themselves but never the less can't match your salary.  Because of this there will be times where money is an issue when it comes to doing things.  So... Could you, would you date someone that makes less money than you?

And while your at it, see if you can come up with some more names for money.