September 24, 2014 - Could you be in an open relationship?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Open relationship:  An interpersonal relationship in which the parties are together but agree to a form of non-monogamous commitment.  Meaning that the two parties agree to have intimate sexual relationships with others…..  That is just one man’s definition of an open relationship.  No matter how you/they/anyone explains it; it means a couple that is committed to each other but agrees to be able to have sex with someone other than their mate.  Now in every situation it might be a little different, some rules are in place.  But all in all that's what it means. 

       

       So now I ask you.  Could you be in an open relationship?  Do you think an open relationship could be a good or bad thing?

       As for me……This may shock some that THINK they know me.  The ones that REALLY know me won’t be surprised….  As for me I could not do an open relationship.  If I decide to be in a relationship with someone I want that someone and that someone only.  I’m a pretty loyal person.  When my feelings are in it I’m all in.  In for a penny, in for a pound!    I do think it could be a good thing for those that can do it.  Too each his/her own.  Those thinking about doing it, understand that It’s not all peaches and cream!  It takes a special kind of person to be able to handle that relationship.  Don’t just look at it as a way to be able fuck a bunch of different people.  It’s much MUCH more than that. 

September 17, 2014 - Work romances, can they work?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

        So... you're at work and there is this unbelievable guy/girl.  She’s pretty, nice body, attitude to match and they are single.  On top of that she/he is interested in you. What do you do?  Work romances can they work?  Would you?  Have you?

       What I am about to say is going to be a big contradiction but.....  I really don't know if I would seek out a work romance; but saying that the best relationship I ever had started at work.  I guess if it just happened I don't think I would stop it but at the same time I don't know if I'd be open to it to allow it to happen.  SMDH......

      Workplace relationships....yes or no?

September 10, 2014 - Are you attracted to a big woman/man?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Before we get started I want to thank everyone that has contributed at any time to this blog.  Thank you!!  Please continue and tell your friends to stop by.  And now.....

       So tell me, does size matter?  No, no not that size.  We've already talked about that.  I'm talking about size as in weight.  Are you attracted to a big woman/man?  What is a big woman/man in your eyes?  Today we have so many different ways to refer to a "big" woman or man.  The most popular term used now is THICK.  Let me say this.  There is a different in thick and fat.  The difference is in the eye of the beholder but there is a difference.  What I might consider thick the next man might say is fat and visa verse.  So the difference is a matter of opinion.  When I am asked if I like big/thick women my answer is, "I like women, period!"  I've had my share of experiences with thick, big, skinny...all kinds of women and they have been good, bad and indifferent.

       So tell me, does size matter?  Do you have a preference?

September 3, 2014 - What is your motivation?

        Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Before we get started I want to thank everyone that has contributed at any time to this blog.  Thank you!!  Please continue and tell someone else to stop by.  And now.....

        In this world we are all looking for something (I think).  Whatever that something is we are all motivated by something.  Money, material gains or love; which floats your boat....what is your motivation?

August 27, 2014 - No blog

No blog tonight...tune in next week when I'll be back and better than ever!!!

August 20, 2014 - One night with any celebrity

        Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Let's have some fun folks.  I have two lighthearted questions for you this evening.

1. If you could spend one night with any celebrity who would it be and what would you do?

2. Pick one person that you know personally (you can name them or not.)  If you could spend one special weekend with them where would you go and what would you do? (be as explicit as you like we are all adults here.)

              So tell me, what you got?

August 13, 2014 - Let’s reminiscence

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       Let’s reminiscence.... I was born and raised in N.E. D.C.  Went to Burrville Elementary, Evans Jr. High and H.D. Woodson….yada yada yada.

       Tell me about where you grew up, the songs you remember, the TV shows.  Give me some memories…..Go!!!!!

August 6, 2014 - Does everyone have a price?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       
       Does everyone have a price?  Can everyone be bought? Do you have a price?

       I say yes, yes and yes.  I believe so.  NOW before everyone lose their mind let me say I do believe that everyone has their price but I also believe that there are moral things that will not allow some people to do some things.  In general I don't believe people will do anything they find morally wrong (if they are married, harm a child, break the law, etc).  I also understand that not everyone has the same moral so what I/you won't do the next person might.  I also believe that a PRICE is not always money.

       Let me give you a few scenarios (please stick with the facts that I give).....
     
       (1)
       You go an an interview for your dream job.  The money is right, the job is right, it's what you have wanted since FOREVER!  After the interview you don't feel good about the way it went, it was an off day for you.  About a week later Mr./Ms. interviewer calls to tell you that it has come down to you and another person for the job.  After a short conversation the they let you know that if you sleep with them the job is yours.  They insure you that there will be no other repercussions (there won't be), no one else will ever found out (they won't) and this will not every happen again (it won't).  Do you sleep with them for your dream job?

       (2)
       You go out on a date with a guy/girl that you met.  It is a good date, you enjoy yourself.  You find the person to be attractive but there is something that just does not click.  You decided that you are not interested in a romantic relationship with them.  You tell them that you can be friends and hope they are willing because you can see yourself having a good time hanging out with them.  About a week later they call and ask you out, you say yes.  At dinner they tell you that they are very physically attracted to you and don't think that they are able to be just friends.  They tell you that this will be the last time you two will see each other BUT before they leave they ask if you would be willing to sleep with them just once.  They don't mean to offend you but the attraction is just so strong.  To try and persuade you they offer you $2000.  You say no and they tell you to name your price.  Is there a price?  What is it?

So what say you.....
          

July 30, 2014 - youngandlookin'forhelp

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Today I'm changing it up a little.  The blog question this week comes from a young lady that wants a little advice...here's her question.....

       Why is it that when a woman invites a man over (before booty call hours) to just kick it he either tries his hand or just assume that she wants to have sex. There are women out there that just just wanna chill and just have the company of a man so what makes him just assume; and how do women feel about a man that comes over expecting more than just her company..does she continue to deal with him after discussing that she doesn't want to have sex or does she give him the boot and move on to the next?

       Well youngandlookin'forhelp (that's what we'll call her) here's my take on it.  Most of the time the guy will go by what he's presented with.  If you past actions were sex when he came to visit that's what he's going to be looking for.  Also if most of your conversations are about sex guess what...that's what he's going to be looking for.  When talking to the guy if you make it clear that you are interested in his company and nothing more he should respect that.  If he can't then he's not someone you need to waste your time with.

But that's just my take on it....

July 23, 2014 - Money...Love...Sex....Greed…Respect….Material Things

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

        Money...Love...Sex....Greed…Respect….Material Things.  What motivates you? 

       Every morning my alarm clock goes off at 4:30 am.  Do I like that…NO!  But bills have to be paid.  I sooooo wish I didn’t have to get up and go to work everyday but I’ve gotta do what I’ve gotta do.  My motivation to do that is Bills.

       I am in no way shape or form money hungry.  I make it because I need it.  Money does not move me but money is needed so I do what I have to do to earn my paycheck.  Now when it comes to writing I do it for the love of it!  (While I'm talking about writing if you have not done it yet pop over to Amazon.com and download your copy of Life's Poems and The Sex Pages and The Sex Pages II: Sexual Eruption)  When it comes right down to it my life is ruled by love (not good sometimes believe me)  I would do anything for the love of my family and those that mean a lot to me.

      

       So tell me, what motivates you?

R.I.P Robert Newhouse......Cowboys for life!!!