Wednesday, May 27, 2015

To snoop or not to snoop - May 27, 2015

      Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

        If you don't know now you know....:

Life's poem and the Sex Pages

 The Sex Pages II: Sexual Eruption

        Hello everybody, hope you are having a nice evening.  Let's have a little fun.  Tell me what would you do and please stick to the facts given (I KNOW someone is going to add to or take away lol).  Let's go.....

       You are home just relaxing, you significant other is there also but off doing something when you notice their cell phone laying there.  Something in you makes you pick it up and start looking through their text.  While you are doing this you come across a thread between them and some guy/girl.  From the text you can tell that they are not related and that they chat or a regular.  You also notice that the last message sent from the other party (about a week ago) says "If you can work it out I'd like to come by and see you sometime."  And your significant other replies "I would like that."  After reading this you have no proof that they have seen each other, all you have is the text.  What would you do?

       First....Would you look at your partner's phone without them knowing?
       Second...... If you did look would you confront them with what you read?

       Ok, as for me I would have to be really, REALLY trippin' for me to look at their phone.  And if I felt like I needed to for some reason I would confront them with whatever was on my mind before I did it.  If I did look and see this...... Yeah, I would have to find out what the fu*k is going on. 

       Now good people.......what would you do?


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10 comments:

  1. QueenadulttoysMay 27, 2015 at 9:51 PM

    Yes I would look &NO I WOULDNT SAY aNYTHING UNTIL THE RIGHT MOMENT.

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    1. Words with Tracy JacksonMay 27, 2015 at 10:26 PM

      How would you feel if your man looked at your phone Queen? And as always, thanks for your words.

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    2. QueenadulttoysMay 28, 2015 at 5:14 AM

      I WOULDNT CARE BECUZ I DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO HIDE

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  2. AnonymousMay 27, 2015 at 9:59 PM

    First; if you go looking for something you will find it...
    I believe what's done in the dark will come to light...
    Second;what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

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    1. Words with Tracy JacksonMay 27, 2015 at 10:27 PM

      Thanks for your words of wisdom Anonymous, but you didn't answers either question lol. But thanks for your words anyway.

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  3. noseyass :-)May 27, 2015 at 10:27 PM

    I agree with Anonymous. Me personally, I probably wouldn't check the phone but if I did I would say something to him about it. I wouldn't tell him right off that I checked the phone, but I would casually throw her name out and take it from there. If me throwing her name out makes him uncomfortable, it might go left real fast lol.

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    1. Words with Tracy JacksonMay 27, 2015 at 10:29 PM

      OK noseyass why play, why not just let them know you know something? Thanks for your words.

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    2. noseyass :-)May 28, 2015 at 2:42 AM

      It's not playing. Your scenario said that you have no proof that they have seen each other, so what is it that you know? Me throwing her name out there is not playing games, it would just be my way of leading into it without jumping to conclusions.

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  4. AnonymousMay 28, 2015 at 12:58 PM

    I guess I just would not go snooping. Generally if something is going on all of the signs were there prior to reading the text.

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    1. Words with Tracy JacksonMay 28, 2015 at 7:11 PM

      I with you Anonymous, I would not go looking for trouble. It's just not worth it. Thanks for your words.

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