Wednesday, December 24, 2014

December 24, 2014 - No Blog tonight....Merry Christmas!!!!!!

       There is no blog tonight.  Merry Christmas every one.  Please be safe and enjoy.  And please, please through all the gift giving and good time PLEASE remember the reason for the season!!!


MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!


Wednesday, December 17, 2014

December 17, 2014 - Interracial dating...Are you or would you be down with the swirl?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Hello, this evening we are going to discuss a topic suggested by one of you (thank you proudofyou).  And that topic is interracial dating or... Are you or would you be down with the swirl?

       I remember having a conversation with friend back when I was in college; that was back in my militant days lol.  I was young, dumb and naive to the world (like I'm so mature and cultured now...NOT lol).  I remember thinking and probably saying that I could never see myself dating or marrying a white woman.  But since then I have come to believe that it does not matter if the woman is black, white, yellow, brown or yada yada yada.  It's the person that matters.  I know it sounds corny but it's true.  Now I do believe I would most likely have more in common with a black woman but that does not mean that she would be better for me.

       Today I would never say that I HAVE to be with a black women.  I am open to dating all races.  I do love my black women BUT I also love ALL WOMEN!
     
       So what say you?  Interracial dating...Are you or would you be down with the swirl?

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

December 10, 2014 - Pause

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Tonight there is no real blog tonight.  Take your time and check out the past post,  also feel free to drop a little note here about anything.  Have a question for me?  Have a suggestion about a blog?  Whatever...

       Thanks for your words....

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

December 3, 2014 - What to wear or Nah

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..


       Ladies I have a question for you.  As a man I know how men (some) like to see a woman dressed.  Speaking for myself I love seeing women in Heels.  Heels with jeans or a dress does not matter I just love heels.  Side note……please have pretty feet.  IJS      
       Now again I’m speaking for myself.  I love the way a woman looks in tight jeans, a nice fitting dress/skirt and I thank God for the newest trend, Yoga pants!  Saying this does not mean I don’t think a woman looks nice in something that is not tight but a nice “fitting” outfit definitely does something for me.
       When it comes to the bedroom I think there is a lot of confusion.  Again please remember I’m speaking for myself.  Lingerie is highly, HIGHLY overrated.  Don’t get me wrong I do like to see a woman in nice lingerie but it’s not that necessary.  Special occasion are cool but on a regular night, not needed.  Please let me say this, a nice bra and panties set is very much appreciated!  But if you ask me a woman is just as sexy (if not more) when she comes to bed in a T-shirt and panties or shorts.  Or by the way I just love; LOVE the way a women looks in a nice pair of sweatpants and t-shirt!
Ok ladies now it’s your turn, how do you like to see a man dress in and out of the bedroom.