December 24, 2014 - No Blog tonight....Merry Christmas!!!!!!

       There is no blog tonight.  Merry Christmas every one.  Please be safe and enjoy.  And please, please through all the gift giving and good time PLEASE remember the reason for the season!!!


MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!

December 17, 2014 - Interracial dating...Are you or would you be down with the swirl?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Hello, this evening we are going to discuss a topic suggested by one of you (thank you proudofyou).  And that topic is interracial dating or... Are you or would you be down with the swirl?

       I remember having a conversation with friend back when I was in college; that was back in my militant days lol.  I was young, dumb and naive to the world (like I'm so mature and cultured now...NOT lol).  I remember thinking and probably saying that I could never see myself dating or marrying a white woman.  But since then I have come to believe that it does not matter if the woman is black, white, yellow, brown or yada yada yada.  It's the person that matters.  I know it sounds corny but it's true.  Now I do believe I would most likely have more in common with a black woman but that does not mean that she would be better for me.

       Today I would never say that I HAVE to be with a black women.  I am open to dating all races.  I do love my black women BUT I also love ALL WOMEN!
     
       So what say you?  Interracial dating...Are you or would you be down with the swirl?

December 10, 2014 - Pause

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

       Tonight there is no real blog tonight.  Take your time and check out the past post,  also feel free to drop a little note here about anything.  Have a question for me?  Have a suggestion about a blog?  Whatever...

       Thanks for your words....

December 3, 2014 - What to wear or Nah

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..


       Ladies I have a question for you.  As a man I know how men (some) like to see a woman dressed.  Speaking for myself I love seeing women in Heels.  Heels with jeans or a dress does not matter I just love heels.  Side note……please have pretty feet.  IJS      
       Now again I’m speaking for myself.  I love the way a woman looks in tight jeans, a nice fitting dress/skirt and I thank God for the newest trend, Yoga pants!  Saying this does not mean I don’t think a woman looks nice in something that is not tight but a nice “fitting” outfit definitely does something for me.
       When it comes to the bedroom I think there is a lot of confusion.  Again please remember I’m speaking for myself.  Lingerie is highly, HIGHLY overrated.  Don’t get me wrong I do like to see a woman in nice lingerie but it’s not that necessary.  Special occasion are cool but on a regular night, not needed.  Please let me say this, a nice bra and panties set is very much appreciated!  But if you ask me a woman is just as sexy (if not more) when she comes to bed in a T-shirt and panties or shorts.  Or by the way I just love; LOVE the way a women looks in a nice pair of sweatpants and t-shirt!

Ok ladies now it’s your turn, how do you like to see a man dress in and out of the bedroom.

November 26, 2014 - Are you surprised?

       Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

        

       There is so much I want to say this evening but can’t and won’t because if I did this blog would be PAGES long.  So I’ll give you a very truncated version and we’ll go from there.

       Are you really surprised by the decision in Ferguson?  I wasn’t.  For many years it’s been shown they don’t really care about US.  And for that reason I urge all the mothers and fathers out there to teach your young men and women that it is more important now than ever before that they need to be mindful of their actions.

        

       TMZ…REALLY.  Totally disrespectful but at the same time who the fuck are they that we should really care what they think.  All the boycotts and petitions are doing nothing but giving them more power and attention.  Get over it and move on.

        

       Bill Cosby.  He did that shit lol.  It’s not funny what he did so forgive me for laughing.  It’s just so crazy that the man that was the father figure many grew up on; and the man that berated the youth a few years ago for the way they were behaving was drugging women to get the booty.  Priceless!!

November 19, 2014 - When to let go?

Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

 

Tonight I want to ask a question I think most all have had to ask themselves at one point or another.  When do you let go?  When is the right time to say enough is enough?

I believe a lot of us get addicted to the pain and hurt bad relationships cause.  We want the situation to work out so bad that we are willing to go through the pain just to try…with the hopes that THIS DAY it will all change.  Today will be the day that he/she sees the light and comes around to what we want them to be.  But for many that day never comes.  So what do we do?  We hold on..keep trying…..stay when we should leave…Why?  I wish I knew.

So I ask.  When do you let go?  When is the right time to say enough is enough?

November 12, 2014 - Daughters date

 Thank you for joining me this evening.  We are here to have a little fun, share ideas and talk like adults.  The scenario that follows is not intended to resemble anyone I know.  If it does it is purely coincidental.   I hope my stories/questions are inviting enough that you will join in the conversation.  With that being said lets have fun exchanging some words…..

 Just the thought of this makes me want to scream; but let's play.

You are in line at the grocery store after a long day.  In front of you there are two young guys, early twenties, and one is telling the other about this young girl he deals with.  As you continue to listen he is calling this girl all kind of bitches, whores, sluts and any other derogatory name he can think of.  He tells his friend that the last time he was with her he brought along another friend and they both had sex with her.  He tells him about all the freaky things they did to her and how she loved it.  He then explains what she did to them and how she told him she was down for stuff like this anytime; that's why he was bringing him this time.  All he has to do is provide a place and drinks and she's all in.  The two dudes go through the line all the while paying you no attention and go on their way.   

Once you're done you head home.  It's been a long day and you are just enjoying a relaxed evening with your family when there is a knock at the door.  As you go to answer the door your 17 year old daughter says "that must be my date."  When you open the door it's the young man you saw in the grocery store about an hour ago.  What do you do?

I know I'm wrong BUT...  I beating the crap out of the boy.  Once I'm done with him I'm giving my daughter the ass whipping of a lifetime!