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We've all had the conversation and we've all discussed it before; is there a difference between having sex or making love? Are they the same thing?
I think we would all LOVE to believe that there is a difference but when it is all taking place it is having sex. However the onset of the process is when the making love takes place, when the desirability is reenforced and we all male or female love that feeling. I hope I answered the question. Ttyl I need to take my shower so that my sex can begin
ReplyDeleteFirst...nice for the sex. Next I agree it's all the same. Having sex with someone we are in love with makes it that much better but the act is the act. Thanks for your words Anonymous.
DeleteNope they are not the same. Personally when I make love, my heart, body and soul is intertwined and I'm relentlessly fallen. When I'm having sex 9 out of 10 I'm just trying to get the job done.
ReplyDeleteSound like when your body and soul are doing the the two step you are having sex with someone you are in love with. The act is the act.....at least that's what I think. Thanks for your words Anonymous.
DeleteI agree with the second comment. The physical act is "sex", but when I'm mentally and emotionally connected to someone I consider it making love. And to me, making love doesn't just mean soft, gentle, slow lovemaking. If i'm into you on a deep mental and emotional level, it can be quick, rough, and hard and i will feel made love to :-). If I don't have those connections with you, it's just sex to me...nothing more. It's all in a person's perception.
ReplyDeleteIfeellikemakinlove this is way this is a good question. It's amazing to me how we (people) can make things what we want them to be. Thanks for your words.
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